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One of our favorite parts of having a body is exploring it, and even if you already know what you like, there’s always room to experiment. That’s where the best sex toys for women come in. From iconic wand vibrators (Magic Wand, IYKYK) to oral sex simulators, there’s a nearly endless supply of rumbly, titillating, adult toys to try. We’ve scoured the internet’s best sex toy shops for clit-sucking vibrators, rabbit vibrators, anal toys, whisper-quiet sex-tech for your browsing pleasure (and pleasure pleasure). Whether you want to switch up your masturbation routine, incorporate toys into partnered sex, or just try something new, there’s something here for you, and we want to help you find it. Scroll on for the best sex toys for women the web has to offer.
Our Favorite Sex Toys
Frequently Asked Questions
Best Overall: Thrust by Bellesa
Why we love it: Bellesa’s Thrust does the heavy lifting for you. Unlike most rabbit vibrators, this toy stimulates your internal erogenous zones with motorized thrusting—but that’s just the beginning. A set of rotating beads around the shaft stimulates your vaginal opening, while a flat exterior arm ensures your clit is in on the fun. The vibrator was also designed with extensive input from Bellesa’s community members, so you know every detail was made with real people (a.k.a. you!) in mind for a world-class dual-stimulation experience.
- Type: rabbit/thrusting vibrator
- Material: body-safe silicone
- Modes: 10 vibration settings, 5 thrusting rotating modes
- Waterproof: yes
- Battery: not specified
- Lube compatibility: water-based lube
Best Wand: Magic Wand Rechargeable Extra Powerful Cordless Vibrator
Why we love it: Classics are classics for a reason. Case in point: The Magic Wand. This iconic vibrator has been a staple of many sex toy drawers for decades, thanks to the powerful, no-frills rumbly vibrations it doles out every time. Unlike the original Magic Wand, this version is cordless (although you can use it while it’s plugged in, which is not the case with many sex toys). It’s also blessedly simple to use, featuring four speeds and four patterns, all controlled by three buttons. The Magic Wand is a solid sex toy for people with arthritis or other hand impairments, thanks to the wide, easy-to-hold base and simple button interface.. “Even if you don’t use it on your clit you can use it on your back,” as an actual massager, New York-based sex educator Octavia Leona Kohner suggested. We love the versatility.
- Type: wand vibrator
- Material: body-safe silicone head
- Modes: 4 speeds and 4 patterns
- Waterproof: no
- Battery: 3 hours (more if you use it as a corded vibrator!)
- Lube compatibility: water-based lube
Best Clitoral Stimulator: LELO Sona 2 Cruise
Why we love it: In the world of sex toys, LELO is synonymous with luxury, and the Sona 2 Cruise, in particular, is a must-have. This external vibrator uses sonic pulses across 12 intensity levels—all of which are controlled via an easy, three-button interface—that’ll have you blasting off in 3, 2, 1…It’s also 100% waterproof, so you can use it in the shower or bathtub to unwind after a long day. The Sona 2 Cruise has a unique “Cruise Control” feature that unleashes a little more power when you press it against your body with increased pressure, which ideally happens when you’re nearing orgasm.
- Type: suction vibrator
- Material: body-safe silicone
- Modes: 12 vibration settings
- Waterproof: yes
- Battery: 2 hours
- Lube compatibility: water-based lube
Best Suction: Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator
Why we love it: This sleek toy is designed to simulate the feeling of oral sex. While your partner’s jaw will eventually tire, this suction vibrator can go for hours. Four hours, to be precise. And while this is perfect for solo play, this thing is also super easy to use during partnered sex. The clit vibrator operates using “Pleasure Air Technology,” which involves sending focused air pulses toward the clit to stimulate the nerve endings without actually touching them—and adding a bit of lube or water to mimic the effect of saliva really seals the deal. In the words of Lady Gaga, “Amazing, talented, never the same, totally unique.”
- Type: suction vibrator
- Material: body-safe silicone
- Modes: 6 intensity settings
- Waterproof: yes
- Battery: 4 hours
- Lube compatibility: water-based lube
Best Hands-Free: Tracy’s Dog OG Pro 2 Clitoral Sucking Vibrator
Why we love it: Like a rabbit vibrator, Tracy’s Dog OG Pro 2 Clitoral Sucking Vibrator is designed to provide internal and external stimulation. But unlike your run-of-the-mill bunny buddy, this toy has a clit-sucking feature that leads to incredible, leg-shaking orgasms. You can also use this vibrator hands-free: Once you’ve got the placement just right, there’s no need to hold it in place. If you want to change things up, it also comes with a remote so you can switch settings without any unnecessary interruptions. You can also use the two features (G-spot vibrations and clit suction) individually rather than simultaneously. It’s kind of like having three vibrators in one.
- Type: clitoral/suction/G-spot vibrator
- Material: body-safe silicone
- Modes: 10 intensity settings
- Waterproof: water-resistant
- Battery: 50 minutes
- Lube compatibility: water-based lube
Best for Travel: Crave Vesper 2 Vibrator Necklace
Why we love it: Sexual wellness meets fashion? Sign us up. Crave’s Vesper 2 Vibrator Necklace fits the bill as a slender pendant that can be worn as a necklace during the day, and put to work against your nether regions at night. Unlike the original, the Vesper 2 is totally waterproof, so feel free to splash around in the tub with it. It’s available in three different finishes: rose gold, black, and for those with a penchant for finer things, 24-karat gold. Though it has an ergonomic, long build that may be tempting to insert, this toy is designed for external use only. But you can use it to massage the outer opening of your vagina or anus.
- Type: external vibrator
- Material: stainless steel (rose gold and black), 24-karat gold (gold)
- Modes: 4
- Waterproof: yes
- Battery: 40 minutes
- Lube compatibility: water or oil-based lubes
Best Dildo: Desire by Lovehoney Luxury Weighted Curved Silicone Dildo
Why we love it: This metal dildo is truly the best of both worlds—it has a satisfyingly hefty feel and is encased in super-soft silicone for a super velvety sensation against your skin. The weight inside the dildo makes it easier to provide intense stimulation to your internal hotspots, so get ready to get off. You can use either the bulbous end or the slimmer, curved tip, depending on the sensation you desire.
- Type: dildo
- Material: body-safe silicone
- Modes: none
- Waterproof: submersible | Battery: none | Lube compatibility: water-based lube
Best for Couples: We-Vibe Sync O
Why we love it: The We-Vibe Sync O is a futuristic sex toy with a little something for everyone. This upgraded version of the original Sync has a flexible silicone loop that slides inside the vagina and vibrates against the internal pleasure spots and the penis (for penetrative sex sessions). Meanwhile, the external arm vibrates against the clitoris for extra-intense sensations. It has 10 intensity levels to explore and an adjustable hinge that ensures it fits your body perfectly. There are three ways to control the settings on this toy. You can use the We-Vibe app, the remote, or the buttons on the toy itself to create your custom vibration patterns.
- Type: clitoral/wearable/couple’s vibrator
- Material: body-safe silicone
- Modes: 10 intensity settings
- Waterproof: yes
- Battery: 3 hours (more if you use it as a corded vibrator)
- Lube compatibility: water-based lube
Most Viral: PinkCherry Rose Vibrator 2.0
Why we love it: If you’ve been on TikTok lately, you’ve probably come across some iteration of this rose-shaped sex toy. In addition to its cuteness, Pinkcherry’s Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator gets the job done and then some, with 10 levels of pulsating suction that anyone is sure to enjoy (it feels good on nipples, too). It’s also easy to use, thanks to a two-button interface and magnetic charger—ideal for people who don’t want to feel like they’re manning a command center while they’re getting off. A few reviewers mention that it can be a little noisy, so turn on some music or a white noise machine if you’re playing with this in earshot of roomies.
- Type: clitoral/suction vibrator
- Material: body-safe silicone
- Modes: 10 intensity settings
- Waterproof: yes
- Battery: 65 minutes
- Lube compatibility: water-based lube
Best Hands-Free: Dame Eva II
Why we love it: The petite and powerful Dame Eva II is a wearable vibe that tucks against your clit and extends ever so slightly underneath the labia majora to keep the vibrator in place. It’s a great pick for a hands-free moment or to take partnered sex to the next level. (If this is hard to visualize, the product page has a helpful video.) Long story short, you won’t have to keep adjusting this toy during sex, no matter how vigorous things get. And, as with any toy, even one designed “for couples” or to be worn during partnered sex, you can use this solo as well.
- Type: clitoral/wearable/couple’s vibrator
- Material: body-safe silicone
- Modes: 3 intensity settings
- Waterproof: yes
- Battery: 1 hour | Lube compatibility: water-based lube
Most Versatile: MysteryVibe Crescendo 2
Why we love it: The MysteryVibe Crescendo 2 is unlike any vibrator we’ve ever seen. It’s incredibly flexible, so you can position it exactly where you want it against your clit, G-spot, P-spot, or wherever else feels good, as well as manipulate the 7-inch body, bending and adjusting how many inches get inserted. It has six motors and 16 power settings to explore, plus it can be app-controlled for partner or solo play (long-distance couples are invited to the party).
- Type: flexible vibrator (internal and external)
- Material: body-safe silicone
- Modes: 12 preset vibrations, 16 intensities
- Waterproof: water-resistant
- Battery: 2 hours
- Lube compatibility: water-based lube
Best for Beginners: Maude Vibe
Why we love it: Vibrators don’t have to be complicated or intimidating—Maude Vibe is an excellent example, with its streamlined design and three speeds. Another “pro” is its comprehensive usage guide, complete with photos, videos, and an FAQ section—all of which can be found on the product page. Precise stimulation on just about any erogenous zone? Fun for everyone.
- Type: external vibrator
- Material: platinum-grade silicone
- Modes: 3 speeds
- Waterproof: water-resistant
- Battery: 1-to 2.5-hour battery life depending on settings used
- Lube compatibility: water-based lube
Best Butt Plug: Njoy Pure Plug Large
Why we love it: This gorgeous stainless steel butt plug is ideal if you’ve previously used smaller “beginner” butt plugs and are ready to try something new. It offers about three inches of insertable length and a particularly wide head measuring about 4.7 inches at the widest point. (Smaller versions, e.g., small and medium, of the same plug are available) The smooth stainless steel is weighted to provide extra stimulation to those sensitive nerve endings inside your anus. It can also be heated or cooled under running water if you want to play with the temperature. Don’t clean this with any abrasive cleaners or materials or you’ll lose the shine. We’d recommend adding sex toy cleaner to your cart before you check out.
- Type: butt plug
- Material: stainless steel
- Modes: none
- Waterproof: no
- Battery: none
- Lube compatibility: water- and silicone-based lube
Best Bullet: Tracey Cox Supersex Bullet Vibrator
Why we love it: A bullet vibrator is the low-key MVP of sex toys, thanks to the ease of use and often accessible price points. This Supersex Bullet Vibrator from Tracey Cox has over 1,000 five-star reviews on Lovehoney, and customers especially love the simple features: There’s one button and one speed, so you won’t have to click through 10 settings to find the one you like. It’s also fully submersible for fun in the tub. If you’re looking to take a sex toy on vacation or to your hookup’s place, this mini vibrator is easy to travel with.
- Type: bullet vibrator
- Material: body-safe silicone
- Modes: 1 speed
- Waterproof: yes
- Battery: 1 AAA battery required (run time not specified)
- Lube compatibility: water- and silicone-based lube
Frequently Asked Questions
Why should I use a sex toy?
Plain and simple, sex toys (especially ones that show love to your clitoris) can do things that penetrative sex alone can’t. “Three out of four folks with vulvas and vaginas need direct or indirect clitoral stimulation for optimal sexual pleasure,” shares Rosara Torrisi, PhD, a licensed clinical social worker and sex therapist at the Long Island Institute of Sex Therapy in Syosset, New York. Not to mention, there are proven mental and sexual health benefits to getting your O, which a good sex toy can all but guarantee. In 2021, there was a study that found subjects who were sexually active (yes, solo play counts as “active”) experienced less anxiety and depression.
Who can use a sex toy?
Everyone can use sex toys—straight up. In particular, those who can’t reach orgasm through penetrative sex, or people who simply want to explore new avenues of masturbation. “The more orgasms you have, the better you’re going to know how to get there, the more you’re going to want them, and the more you understand yourself,” Holly Richmond, PhD, a somatic psychologist and certified sex therapist, previously told Allure. In turn, you can share said information with a partner to make your sexual exploits infinitely more pleasurable.
In fact, while most sex toys are great for solo play, they can also be a fun part of partnered sex if you want them to be. Browsing for toys together “can be a big part of the foreplay as the mind starts to imagine how toys might be used,” says Jenn Kennedy, PhD, board-certified sex therapist and licensed marriage and family therapist at Riviera Therapy in Santa Barbara, California. “It’s also a way to signal more of what you like, which is a thrilling way to grow the relationship.”
What are the different types of vibrators?
As for what type of sex toys to explore, “Vibrators are a typical favorite and they come in both external, clitoris-focused designs as well as internal, phallic options,” shares Dr. Kennedy. Below, get to know the main categories of vibrators: